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How Inherited Trauma Can Lead To Increased Resilience
Resilience, Trauma, Epigenetics Maryanne Nicholls Resilience, Trauma, Epigenetics Maryanne Nicholls

How Inherited Trauma Can Lead To Increased Resilience

January is the season of dieting, especially for those of us who gain weight too easily. This tendency to gain weight runs in families, especially on the female side, and can be due to Epigenetics.

Epigenetics explains how a woman who is pregnant during a famine can pass down an increased capacity to metabolize food to her baby born out of that experience.  I am a result of such an experience …

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The Power of Anticipation: Building Resilience Through Dual Expectations
Resilience, Expectation, Empowerment and Living Maryanne Nicholls Resilience, Expectation, Empowerment and Living Maryanne Nicholls

The Power of Anticipation: Building Resilience Through Dual Expectations

Plan for the worst, Expect the best. This is advice I give clients, and myself, all the time. Why? Because I tend to do the opposite and end up at minimum disappointed, and at worst, in shock and even trauma. “Opposite” isn’t quite what I used to expect: I wouldn’t expect the worst; as it turned out, I had things in the wrong order – I’d expect the best without any real consideration, then plan accordingly. In addition, I’d expect everything and everyone except me to be perfection, then spend all my waking moments worrying over how I could mess it all up.

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